amyb Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 I have been dating this guy for about 6-7 weeks now, and it's been going really well, the only real problem is that it is long-distance (about 2 1/2 hours away) so we don't see much of each other (we have gone on a few dates) and we talk on the phone. We have a great time together, there's a lot of chemistry, and we have had sex (so if you're against having sex before establishing a solid relationship, don't judge please). Also, we've both pretty much made it clear that we are looking for a serious relationship, but we haven't had a discussion about our current situation, i.e. are we headed for something serious, are we exclusive etc. I'm wondering if it is maybe too soon for that, since we have only been dating a few weeks, and because of the fact that we are long distance. How long is long enough to wait before bringing this up? I know time can vary for different people, and it also depends on the circumstances, but is less than 2 months too soon to ask what our status is? (which really means, how he feels about me). I really like him and I don't care to see other people, and although I know he likes me too, I don't know what he's thinking about the future. Thanks in advance for your responses Link to comment
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