JewelCat Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 I've had this male friend for almost a year. I developed a bit of a crush on him, and he seemed interested in me too, but a little on the shy side. I think sometime around March of this year, even though we still enjoyed each others company, things began to feel very platonic. I wasn't attracted to him as much and whatever romantic "spark" I was feeling was fading fast. But, I still enjoyed his friendship. Here's my problem: We hang out maybe once a week or every other week. Sometimes he initiates it and sometimes I do. When we're together, its still very platonic and I don't feel like taking things further than friendship. But then, always a couple of days after I see him, I miss him terribly! I come up with excuses to call or text him (which I usually don't follow through with), and find myself checking up on his Facebook at least once a day. Then one of us will initiate something, we'll meet up, and my romantic feelings for him vanish. I'm content for a couple days, and then I miss again, and the whole cycle repeats itself. Right now, I haven't heard from him for a week and a half, so I miss him. I feel silly actually admitting that I know my feelings will go away the next time I see him (whenever that will be), but right now I can't stop thinking about him. Has anyone else gone through this? Link to comment
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