johnnyp Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 Well, after my exes mother called me a few weeks ago and asked me to call her back (after not having spoken for years and after hearing many rumours over the past six or so months that my ex was missing me and regretting leaving) I spent some time debating whether or not to call her back and tonight bit the bullet and made the call and all I can say is…what a waste of time and what an awkward conversation. Back-story on my break-up is here and here. I hadn't spoken to her or heard from her for nearly two years, although my dad bumps into her all time, so the first thing I thought was "why the heck does she want to talk to me now?" So I call her and we chat a bit with lots of awkward gaps in the conversation (obviously…I dated her daughter years ago and we have nothing in common anymore) and she mentions her daughter (my ex) a lot and tells me all about what she's been up to and what she's doing now, so I make polite noises and say things like "good for her..that sounds great" a lot and then after about an hour of this awkwardness I say "Anyway, great to chat but I'm late for meeting my friend so I've got to go" and after she tells me I should visit her soon I hang up and sit here scratching my head thinking "What on earth was that all about?!?" After months of telling my dad that she thinks my ex regrets leaving me, that she (her mother) thinks we should get back together and asking my dad if I'm seeing anyone, I finally chat to her and all I get is an updated history of my exes life post-Johnny P. I don't know what I expected really but I guess I expected more than this Anyway at least I've finally pulled off the band-aid and called her back, which I was very nervous to do and it all seemed to go well. Still…very strange! It's weird to be told that your ex misses you and regrets leaving and then you wait and nothing happens. Anyhoo...just venting. Feel free to share your thoughts and clap me on the back for making such a scary and awkward call Link to comment
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