stella74 Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 If you're interested in someone, what are your expectations in terms of that person canceling plans to be with you? I've always felt that I don't have to cancel plans, in the very early stages of dating, if a man asks me out for that same day/night or the next day/night. That means that even if I really liked someone, I would be honest that I already had plans, and I would make it clear that I would really like to go out and would like to find a different day or night to get together. Am I not prioritizing dating enough? Or is it wise to set these sorts of boundaries in the beginning to show that I'm not willing to drop everything on short notice to be with the man? In my experience, the men who were really interested in me never asked me out on short notice in the early stages of dating. They always asked me out at least 2-3 days in advance. After the first few dates, I would have no problem with going out on short notice and changing plans to be with the man. What do you think? What has been your experience? Link to comment
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