Laura89 Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 Okay I'm in a long term relationship and while there have been rocky patches we are very strong and have a great relationship. Though lately things haven't been brilliant, hes a bit more moody and our sex life is no more at the moment as he hasn't been feeling very well. I'm still attracted to him and I love him very much. Well heres the thing, I have a crush on a mate from work who is 8 years older than me, not that attractive but funny and kind (so is my br though) someone who I have even thought of in that way ever, till now, I went on a night out the other night and was dancing with him (non-sexual) and out of nowhere I wanted to kiss him and I also got disapointed when he went home early - i thought i was feeling this way because I was drunk, but the next day at work I was feeling the same way, I was even finding excuses to go near him. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, and i would rather die than be without him, but im confused about this other guy, who im even ashamed to ammit liking to a close friend. It is normal to be attracted to someone who you know when in a relationship? Does this mean anything about the relationship I'm in? P.s My boyfriend is my first proper BF. Link to comment
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