babybear Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Do people make the same sex noises/sounds/breathing whatever when they masturbate privately as they do when having sex? This applies to men and women. Just curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrKitten Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 I don't. My noises during sex are more to express to my partner how good I'm feeling. Sometimes a little moan or gasp will escape me when I make myself come, and I definitely breathe heavily, but not to the same extent as when I'm with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awe-some Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Haha. Not me. I'm usually very quiet when I'm all by myself. But very vocal with someone else. It would be really weird if I "scream" when I'm masturbating. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamour detruit Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 I think it's different everyone. Many exaggerate their noises when having sex merely to show the other they are enjoying it. I certainly don't make noises when I masturbate, and I am pretty sure that's the case for most. It is more like a mechanism that guys have done since they were really young..so it is nothing special. We don't go around sitting in our room, screaming it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGlareOften Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Agreed. The sounds aren't the same. Sometimes my own moans make me hot, so I do them while I masturbate...but that's only occassionally. (That sounded so bad and so wrong) But, with another person..I'll be more vocal..it's less weird. But, it's like...I dunno..I'd feel weird making all kinds of noises alone. If it was THAT good alone...I wouldn't need a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
digger11 Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 no I dont. when I masturbate I breathe more rapidly, and maybe a small moan when I orgasm... but with a guy it is totally different. As the others have said it is maybe sometimes exaggerated (just in a sense of being louder) so your partner knows what turns you on.. however for me, it really does feel that much better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jd1983 Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 No, the noises are completely different. If I'm masturbating, I'm a lot more quiet, if I'm with my bf my moans changes from his thrusts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGlareOften Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 No, the noises are completely different. If I'm masturbating, I'm a lot more quiet, if I'm with my bf my moans changes from his thrusts. It's been too long. ^ that just turned me on...the mental picture. *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptomisticGirl Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Different. Im silent by myself other than the occasional moan and heavy breathing but with my partner, you can't shut me up lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glucoze Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 No. I don't make the same noise when i masturbate as i would if i were having sex. Unless i was really enjoying myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 I don't make noise when I masturbate. I make noise with someone else for encouragement and because I know they like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shuttlefish Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 It's been too long. ^ that just turned me on...the mental picture. *sigh* I agree - there's something about the words "moan" and "thrust" if used in the same sentence! English lit class tells me they are Onomatopeia, but whatever they are, they express, inform and titillate! link removed To the OP. I think we are allowed/encouraged to be noisier during 2 person sex as opposed to solo. The nature of solo is different - at least to men anyway. For guys, its something to "get out of the way" so we can focus on more constructive things (which could be anything from making a sandwich to invading a foreign country). Moaning etc just slows us down lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iakasot Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 Do people make the same sex noises/sounds/breathing whatever when they masturbate privately as they do when having sex? This applies to men and women. Just curious. I sometimes do, if I'm really craving a partner at that moment. Otherwise, I try to stay quiet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredofvampires Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 I agree - there's something about the words "moan" and "thrust" if used in the same sentence! English lit class tells me they are Onomatopeia, but whatever they are, they express, inform and titillate! link removed To the OP. I think we are allowed/encouraged to be noisier during 2 person sex as opposed to solo. The nature of solo is different - at least to men anyway. For guys, its something to "get out of the way" so we can focus on more constructive things (which could be anything from making a sandwich to invading a foreign country). Moaning etc just slows us down lol. Interesting post. I never would have thought of the words "moan" and "thrust" as onomatopoeia. Those seem like just regular verbs, unless I missed an etymology lesson. To illustrate what I consider more like onomatopoeia, I do not associate moaning with going, "moan, moan, moan, moan." It's kind of more like, "Uuuuh. Uuuuuh. UUUUh...UHHHHHNNHHHNNH". I think I'll spare an attempt at "thrust" in this context. Also, your last sentence is funny, shuttlefish. Heh. Emitting a noise slows you down? This is quite a revelation you should share with the guys who think they have trouble coming too fast. As to the OP...I feel like the odd one out here, somewhat. In that, in my own private experience, I've wondered over the amount of bruhaha (actually, come to think of it, that word's slightly onomatopoeic here as well) I was creating and asked myself if I wasn't trying to replicate the real thing. To make it seem more "authentic." But then, subjecting this to rigorous investigation (since I would hate to bloat my own ego about my performance), I realized that frantically having to grab a pillow and suffocate myself probably was a good indication that it was genuine. Of course though, I do a lot more verbalizing with a partner and it's fair to say that it's an amplified version of the solo experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragon lady Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 I only make noise because I don't want him to think I'm not enjoying it. I don't do it on my own and I wouldn't do it if he were deaf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LightbulbSun Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 I don't make any sex noises when I masturbate, and I'm a virgin, so I suppose it'll be the same when I (finally) lose my virginity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormie Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 how about if you make noises while your by yourself but none when you're with someone? LOL, never mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godless_Heathen Posted May 30, 2010 Share Posted May 30, 2010 Uh, that's me. I make noises when I'm alone, but not when I'm actually having sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arise_shine Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 Usually no, but sometimes if it's particularly good and I'm home alone, then yeah, I'll make a little noise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenzie76 Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 For me its a totally involuntary reaction. When I am alone I can be quiet, but say if I have been delaying the orgasm and having myself a bit more fun than just letting go as soon as the feelings take me I can't help but make a noise, but I try to muffle it (usually by covering my mouth with my hand or pillow. When I am with someone, I have no control what so ever, I am a very vocal person and can't help but be a bit of a moaner, its not for effect or to turn on my guy, its just the way my orgasms take me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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