Sempiternal Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 I've been...seeing...this guy since the end of January/beginning of February. We hang out or go on a date maybe once a week or sometimes even once every two weeks, which has a lot to do with our schedules and the fact that he seems hesitant to actual 'ask' me to do anything. He usually suggests doing something rather than asking. Or I'll ask him. When we are together (lately it's mostly been chilling at his place, though he does take me out to movies) he pays for everything. Also, he'll randomly do cute little things like kiss my shoulder when we're cuddling or rub my nose with his. He's even fed me (shared some melted brownies from mcdonalds). He's never pressured me to do anything. He seems to put pressure on himself if he thinks he didn't do well during a certain position and will say so, almost like he's apologizing. He does bring up things like school, my plans for the weekend are etc. Yet, I only hear from him a couple times a week. If he 'suggests' hanging out it's maybe a day or two in advance. We've never done anything on the weekends because he either drives home (7 hours away) or goes into a different city where he has friends (1-1 1/2 hours away). So my question is, is it lust or could he possibly have feelings for me...but maybe scared how I will react? (I know to know for sure I need to ask him) Or should I wait it out and see? Link to comment
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