mandellin Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I have been in a relationship with someone for almost four years now. During our relationship he has always had periods of non-communication. He told me originally this was due to his job so I accepted it and tried not to badger him to much about it. Four years into our relationship and another period of non-communication has came. A lot of friends giving advice are telling me they think he is leading a double life and think he is with a girl somewhere else and I am freaking out now. I have no evidence to base this off of - but it scares me because I don't hear from him and I don't know. To make matters worse - I called his mom to check and see if she had heard from him,was he okay,etc. She told me that she had not heard from him in ten days. The next day she calls me back and tells me that he called her and for me to stop worrying about his well-being. Maybe I am being a little harsh here - but he can take the time out of his day to call his mom and can't pick up the phone to call me? He is not really close to her as she abandoned him when he was a child. The last time they had talked they had a big argument in which she basically told him he was a loser because he had not sent her the money she wanted. It has been almost ten days since I have heard from him. I think it is crappy that he called her and didn't call me. It would be different if she was a normal mother and he was close to her - but he is not. So I guess my question is how much NC should I let him get away with before I pack my bags and move on with my life? Link to comment
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