ex emails got me really thinking

[jbrooklyn]

As some of you know, my ex has been sending these dump emails which I havent responded to. I thought about it this morning and I have mix emotions about it.

 

I keep thinking about how he treated me at times that was just uncalled for. Times when I didnt deserve it but he was being a jerk cause he wanted to be. Now that I am going thru these things in my mind, I think I am going to just chill like I have been doing. He has not been good to me. None of these emails are not worth a response. He so use to me wanting him and running after him. He is a trip. Even tho I am not happy about alot of things he has done, I still care about him. But I want to be respected and treated much better. Im not settling for anything less regardless of who you are. I cant ever go thru this kind of pain again. Im very serious about that. Respect is more important than love.

[sidehop]

Im not settling for anything less regardless of who you are. I cant ever go thru this kind of pain again. Im very serious about that. Respect is more important than love.

 

That's great, you're respecting yourself and your own heart; stay strong!

[jbrooklyn]

That's great, you're respecting yourself and your own heart; stay strong!

 

Its hard cause my heart is still in it. Today will be rough. I can tell. It is like Im losing him even more. But I have to look out for me.

[jenna-is-here]

Great place to be jbrooklyn. Even the decision to not respond or do anything is somewheat of a relief. You are not playing games. You are just surrounding yourself with people that are good for you and make you happy! And it sounds like at this point, does not remotely include him! Nice.

[HurtinginTexas]

Stay strong. I just got dumped and posted my sad story under breakups.

Mine has done that on 4 of the past breakups by trying to send a little email here and there as an icebreaker. Then it goes back to disrepect and little effort