dumper is emailing again..I love him but Im still not responding

[jbrooklyn]

This is the same ex that I have been on her crying about. He dumped me with a vengences and left me jacked up with the words he said to me.

 

It has taken me almost 3 months to hold my head up high and he sends me the second email saying

I KNOW YOU GOT MY EMAIL

 

Of course again, I didnt respond. I almost did but here the thing

 

You left me after I cried begged, humilated myself and tried everything to hold on to you.

 

You havent said you are sorry

These emails/texts are crumbs as far as Im concerned

 

I love him and I would love to be back together but Im not settling for this kind of stuff. He needs to show me something more and that he is serious and not playing with me like Im a little girl or we in high school. he made me a woman and he is going to have to be a man about his from now on. No more dumb stuff. I have been hurting and wanting him for a long time. I cant let him break me down anymore.

[IvantheAvg]

Hold the line.

[cherryberry123]

Stay strong, girl. There are many people supporting you. Make us all proud..and remember, you're not the only one going through it!

[diamond78]

lol...what the heck kind of e-mail was that?? I remember the other email he sent you, and he didn't say anything or ask a question to even respond to...

 

Seems like he notices that you have backed off and is trying to poke you with a stick. Don't let him get to you.

 

You're doing great....keep going strong!

[amandamarie]

This is the same kind of stuff my ex was doing, emailing/texting nonsense stuff really. It is hard, because in a way, it is good to hear from them because you know they are thinking about you, and in a way, it can set you back a little for that same reason.

 

I ignored my ex's attempts to contact like this for the last 2 months (we've been broken up almost a year). He amped it up, I got ticked off and told him off. Guess what? After that, we are talking, and we have both said that there is potential there for something more (although i'm not getting my hopes up much). So basically, I am saying do what you want here. If you want to ignore, do it. If you think it would make you feel better, tell him you don't appreciate the attitude (because his message did come accross with some attitude, in my opinion). Just do what is best for YOU and will make you feel better. Some people may not agree with me, but sometimes it can feel pretty darn good and even make him respect you more if you call him out on behavior like this.

[pumpkinmoon]

He knows you got his email! So what? It's up to you whether you respond of not.

 

Just out of interest, what did the email say?

[intolerable]

Hold the line.

 

Agree. Sail away!

[nguyenal]

Stay strong and keep on going. One day, you will meet someone right for you and not your ex.

 

They hurt you once and how are u guarantee that they won't hurt you again? Just try to move on.

[mirrorman]

My most recent ex sent me an e-mail recently. Nothing heavy, just some trivial stuff. After much deliberation, I've decided that she wasn't of sufficient character for me to get back with her. Life's too damned short.

 

Doesn't mean I don't still have feelings for he, but I'm still not going for it.

[Etoile]

I KNOW YOU GOT MY EMAIL

 

Does he know you are in NC? Otherwise IMO the email he sent you is quite rude. He's saying I know you got my last email why haven't you replied? It's your choice to reply. There is no obligation for you to reply and that is why I think it is rude for him to expect or demand a reply from you. Especially if he knows you are in NC.

[jbrooklyn]

Does he know you are in NC? Otherwise IMO the email he sent you is quite rude. He's saying I know you got my last email why haven't you replied? It's your choice to reply. There is no obligation for you to reply and that is why I think it is rude for him to expect or demand a reply from you. Especially if he knows you are in NC.

 

My ex has a big ego. Back in March he called me a btch, told me he hated me and made me feel so bad and left me in tears. All because I seen a pic of him on fb with someone and I got upset about it. I told him I wouldnt mess with him again and I havent.

 

I dont know who he thinks he is but Im just not interested in being treated like a doormat anymore by nobody. His messages are disrespectful and Im just not having it.

[anu1560]

that email does really has a lot of attitude. He left, what the heck is this attitude for. He should be bowing down if he wants you back. Not right some crap email like.

 

'I know you got my email'. SOOOOOO. I got it. What should I do? Go and beg you again to take me back?

 

That email sure has too much attitude. He better make an effort to write a better email if he wants you back. And if he has ego issues, that is his problem. Not yours. He left. He better behave.

[mirrorman]

Unless there's a VERY good reason not to do it, you should leave your dumper in the dumper!

 

Seriously, I got a message from a woman who dumped me for someone whom she said was better. Exactly 60 days latger, she sends me an e-mail. She doesn't say anything about me or about herself. Instead she sends me a link to a site that she says I'd probably like. It turned out to be a site which I do visit occasionally, but then I thought about our relationship and about how certain benefits within that relationship mainly accrued to her rather than me (she seemed to get a lot of "headaches" when we were together, if ya know what I mean) and decided that no, I won't get fooled again!

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[jellysandwich]

Was I the only who laughed at this? What a silly email

[fuddiduddy]

Was I the only who laughed at this? What a silly email

 

Nope.

 

I was laughing PLUS saying to myself, "Good. He's pissed now. Good for his a**. Just what he deserves."

 

He was annoyed because the OP didn't jump when he "ordered" her to. Now, he has the gall to be frustrated like a little brat after all he put her through.

 

OP, I'm sooooo glad you're staying strong. For us...you're a great role model. For him....you're getting under his skin. He deserves it if you ask me.