BobbyC Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 I wasn't exactly sure which forum to put this in, either Getting Back Together or Healing After Break Up. Yes I would like to have her back, but I feel this is a little more appropriate under the healing forum. It really shouldn’t, I should be happy for them. But for some reason it struck a chord with me. I heard a couple I became friends with through my ex recently became engaged. They were the couple that was anti-marriage. They dated for a while, broke up for a few months, and then dated again for several years. In total it’s been almost 10 years for them. My ex and I used to talk how they would never get married because neither of them believed in marriage. Why did I feel a twinge of pain instead of happiness when I heard this? I know part of me is upset because her ex prior to me will be there. He is good friends with both the groom/bride to be. He always drove a wedge in our relationship. I hate the fact that both he and my ex will be in the wedding party. It feels like I lost in some way. I lost the girl I thought I was going to marry, the future I had envisioned, the past 4 years of my life and the woman who made me happy. I don’t know for fact that she is back with him, but this could be just the catalyst that was needed. Link to comment
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