confusedbella3 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 was with my ex for 5 years and we have been split up for 3 months. At first when I told him I wanted to split up (but he drove me to it by his behaviour so I feel like a dumpee) he said he didnt want to talk again, goodbye etc. this lasted 5 weeks, him doing complete NC. Then I recieved an I am sorry type email, to which I responded thanks. then nothing for a week or so.... the last few weeks he has initiated contact quite a bit. Some nights he sent me two emails in a row for example. Sometimes I responded quickly (but briefly) sometimes I didnt respond. they are just about random lighthearted things, not about us. As we were getting on better, a few days ago I sent him an email ... he hasnt responded. I hate when its me that is ignored. As soon as he responds I feel better. This is a bit silly I know. i am thinking the next time he is in touch I wont respond. I want to not appear too available and friendly because its a bit too soon. I made the mistake of responding too much to his light hearted emails. I should have not responded to all of them , to keep some mystery right? guys like that right? Link to comment
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