uj2004 Posted May 26, 2010 Share Posted May 26, 2010 So, after having made it this far, 15 months, I finally saw photos of my ex and the guy she left me for. She had sent a f.b friend request the other day (she has been in limited contact the last week - no idea why), and I couldn't help myself. I didn't enlarge any of the thumbnails, but I saw enough (there were only about 3 photos of them together on her whole page, all from something more than a year ago - strange). To be honest, maybe it was the best thing I could have done. I scrolled through her wall (I hate the whole fb thing - I dont have anything on my page, not even a photo), and saw that she is basically a totally different person. Yes, it made me feel incredibly insignificant, a little jealous, and that the 3.5 years she was in my life were meaningless, but maybe that's how I need to view what her and I had for a while. I wont be back again, certainly not to check on 'updates', but maybe seeing that the past year of my life did actually happen, and not just being somewhat deluded, will help me in ultimately moving on. All this comes to me now, just as she has reopened the lines of communication! Link to comment
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