CarnelianButterfly Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 Today my boyfriend and I had a bad moment, it was my fault for not thinking about what I was saying before I said it. Last night we were at his friends' place and one of the guys sent me a text from my BF's phone saying "I'm breaking up with you. I crave penis for my ...." you get the idea, it was a crass joke message going on about how gay my BF was. It only showed up on my text alert as "I'm breaking up with you". Our phones have a horrible delay between send/receive times, so I was momentarily freaked that he had sent this message earlier and I was just now getting it as I was sitting right next to him. I then read the rest of the message and my expression prompted a general "what's wrong" from the group. I read the message out loud, which got a lot of laughs and my BF said that his friend deserved props for the joke. Today at lunch we were talking about the same friend when I went on to quote the message "I'm breaking up with you..." I didn't even think about it, I was just quoting the message, I hadn't prefaced the statement as we were talking about this person already. All I got out was the "I'm breaking up with you" and my BF looked horrified. I immediately felt stupid and equally horrified at the same time. I quickly said it was the text last night, the joke, and apologized. He looked so upset. I feel so bad, I can't believe how big an idiot I was. He laughed it off and things went on, but I'm still so worried about it. I know I should probably drop it, but I still don't know what to do otherwise. I won't mention it, but I'm concerned that I've done some serious damage. Link to comment
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