i'm beating myself in the head over this girl

[shiminimo]

i broke up with my grilfriend three month ago. this relationship has had alot of problem but i doooo love her for some dam reason. any during the breakup she met some else. i asked her over and over again if she did she said no. one nite i caught her with him at her house. she told me to leave. that hurt really bad. she told me to leave not him. then she came to my house that nite and told me that she loved me not him. i was so confused i believed her for a second then i told her to leave. since then i told her to stay with him. the chosen one. now she texts me all the time tellings me how much she dreams about being with me. she is still with him tho. wth?

[Ebrithil]

Take it back a little if you want to know her then take it back to a frindly level, if you stop expecting from each other you wont be disapointed when they do things that would hurt you. Then at least you can find out what her real intentions are. He could be a rebound guy she could be playing you, she could be an emotional wreck and doing whatever she thinks will make her feel better who knows until you take the time to find out.