Crystalfox. Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 I spent a year and a half with my girlfriend, and we always seemed to get along. I gave unconditional love, and a lot of my time and money. I drove her around on errands, helped her with forms, I even bought all kinds of things for her, because I expected our relationship to end in marriage. I thought we were well on the way to that, I had bought the ring and everything. But then I discovered she had been using me the whole time. Everything was a lie. She made fun of me when talking to her friends, cybered with people in text messages, invited other guys over to her apartment when I was not around, and then as soon as I showed up she would be the sweetest thing in the world, In reality, she just wanted me to take her out for lunch. I gave up a year and a half of my life, and several thousand dollars to her. I even helped her move, twice. I bought her a bed, a computer, a puppy, and all kinds of clothes, which I gave freely as gifts for various occasions…. I took her out to eat all the time, to movies, and did all the date stuff… I honestly thought she loved me. It may have been so at first, but she must have given up on me months ago, and decided to keep me around for my wallet. But now I’m feeling so betrayed I want to march over there, get every thing I ever gave her, and take it all to a pawn shop. Every last birthday, Christmas, Valentines, and “Just Because” gift. Either way, I think the relationship is over. My heart is breaking, and the stupid thing is, I still have a faint hope we could patch things up… But the thought of how much she used me hurts the most. I just can’t let her get away with this. What should I do? Link to comment
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