Atticus90 Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 I'm sittin' here thinking. Why wouldn't she want to go back out with me? We were so happy together ( atleast I thought we were ). yeah, we had our bad times, but we always got through it. Now she's 18 with a child and doing this basically alone. Yeah, she gets help from her parents, but that can only last so long. What happened to the great "american dream"? Wife, husband, children, nice house, nice job, etc: ? Now in her case, it'll be herself, child, different step father every other year. I'm even scared to think of where she'd end up living... Why are people so dumb. I understand she suffers from depression, bi polar, but she should still have some sort of brain activity... My fear at the moment is getting over her. Sounds silly, but I'm starting to get over here and it's starting to scare me a little bit. I want to continue holding on to her, but i can't. She tells me she doesn't love me anymore. She said she loves the person I used to be.. I mean, what's that all about For you women out there. What could possible be going through her head? Why am I the bad guy? Please help me Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 Were you providing a home for you, her and the baby when you were together? Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted May 25, 2010 Author Share Posted May 25, 2010 Yes I was. Now I have to sell it 'cause I can't afford it on my own. She left me with nothing I tell ya.. Link to comment
avman Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 But didn't you just threaten her implying you'd use a gun to clean out her mouth? That kind of thing said even one time could stop any loving feelings she might have had towards you. Link to comment
jengh Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 But didn't you just threaten her implying you'd use a gun to clean out her mouth? That kind of thing said even one time could stop any loving feelings she might have had towards you. I agree. If a guy said that to me, I would run for the hills and make sure he never saw his child unsupervised because I would then begin to view him as dangerous. Link to comment
savignon Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 You're implying that if she's not with you her life will suck....not exactly love. And ditto on the gun comment. You can't really "not get" what went wrong. Link to comment
hers Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 i think you need a lesson in humility here. why would you WANT a relationship wtih you? your relationship wasn't the healthiest. you were always talking to other girls, if i remember correctly, and saying awful things to her. she was also doing shady things at times, if i remember correctly as well. just b/c you "love" each other doesn't mean it'll work. think of your son. raise him in a HEALTHY environment, free of toxic relationships and parents who fight all the time. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 What happened to the great "american dream"? Wife, husband, children, nice house, nice job, etc: ? Based on your other threads, this situation has been anything but. She was very unhappy an unaccepting of the pregnancy from the start, you 2 were fighting a lot, etc. The best you can do right now is focus on is how to make life as comfortable and drama-free for your child, who is innocent in all of it. The 2 of you don't have to be together to give the child a good life. The 2 of you will probably do better apart in the long-run. I know the breakup hurts, but it is probably for the best for everyone involved. Link to comment
Tired Tiger Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 I'm sittin' here thinking. Why wouldn't she want to go back out with me? Could it be she doesn't understand such compassion and charm as... Why are people so dumb. I understand she suffers from depression, bi polar, but she should still have some sort of brain activity... That, and the romantic fantasy of buckshot in her mouth... yeah, what could she be thinking? Link to comment
hers Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 Could it be she doesn't understand such compassion and charm as... That, and the romantic fantasy of buckshot in her mouth... yeah, what could she be thinking? Gonna go with this response too. Wise up, man. You don't treat her well. Your posts say as much. Link to comment
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