Maramoan Posted May 23, 2010 Share Posted May 23, 2010 I have gone down the N/C road, the L/C road and did the whole get new hobbies and go out there stuff recommended on alot of the reconciliation forums and oddly enough these methods do seem to work ...But I found I didn't really like the process. I enjoyed the hobbies and such, yet I found keeping all those methods at the back of my mind making me feel like I was trying to push the natural flow of healing and love. To be honest, alot of these sites make me feel more like a con artist than someone who really wished for a second chance. Then I found this relatively simple how to site : link removed and link removed I feel it combines some of the good advice of N/C, i.e remember to love yourself but also emphasis to not make something more than it is, to just let things be. Lately when I think of him, I just kind of wish him the best, yet know he may never come back. Yet knowing the love I put out there is in the universe, makes me happy, cause I'm living in the positive. Link to comment
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