Drwily Posted May 23, 2010 Share Posted May 23, 2010 I’ve been with this girl for a year and a half, and most of it has been wonderful. We don’t live together, but we spend a lot of time with each other, usually several hours a day. But she has a minor form of bipolar disorder that causes her to have fits of depression, and rarely mania. We occasionally have problems with her mood swings, especially around “that time of the month” but we have always managed to overcome them, and my love for her has only grown with time, and so far her problems seem very minor compared to the good memories I have made with her. Her bipolar has not bothered me much so far, since I have extensive psychological training, but still, she sometimes does things that hurt me. Psych knowlage or not, I'm not made of stone. In the last two weeks, she seems to have hit her Mania phase. However, this time is different. She has ceased showing all affection toward me, flirts openly with other guys, hangs out with friends until 5 in the morning, and doesn’t invite me or even bother to tell me about her activities. I worry about what she is doing, but she now seems to think I’m a bother, and does not even contact me anymore. All this has occurred in a very short time. I love her, and can forgive her if this is just part of her disorder. I hope to god that she will eventually return to me. But at the same time, I have to wonder if she is serious. Is she actually leaving me? Should I even try to win her back? What can I even do? Link to comment
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