u4me Posted May 23, 2010 Share Posted May 23, 2010 Long story short, I was in a committed LDR. I was very loyal to him and trusted him completely. My world was turned upside down when he called to tell me he met someone new. She moved in with him within days. It was as if she just walked in where I got booted off. That was over 20 months ago. This has been one of the most difficult times of my life. It's taken me all of this time to accept that this is not a person I want to reconcile with - I could never trust him again. The loss of my romantic partner was hard enough, but I lost my best friend, too. And, he was given instructions by the new woman to never contact me. Well, he called yesterday. He hasn't called me in over a year. She finally ended their relationship. He wouldn't committ to moving to her new city (where she had a new job after being unemployed for almost the entire duration of their relationship) and she couldn't deal with what had now become a LDR. She has huge trust issues (no kidding, since he cheated on me to be with her). This is awful, but after I came to terms that I didn't want to be with him, I just wanted their relationship to end. And, I'm sorry to report - it feels great! I feel free. Link to comment
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