Belts Posted May 23, 2010 Share Posted May 23, 2010 So last time I posted here I told you guys about a phone conversation I had with my ex. Most of you were very negative about it. The best suggestion I got was to go NIC, and that's what I've done. Today she texted me and told me that her first day at her new job was alright, but a little lame. I replied and asked her how everything else is going for her. She told me she got her hair cut and sent me 2 pictures of herself with her new hair. Of course I got all butterfly-stomachy upon seeing the pictures, and as I was typing my response, she says, "...any thoughts?" I told her she looks very cute and sexy, and that I miss her. She told me she misses me, too. I asked her if she still doesn't mind me calling her sweetie, since the last time we talked she was calling me lovie. These are the pet names we have used for each other, and only each other. She told me that she doesn't mind, but to keep it at a friendly tone. I shot the * * * * with her for a few more minutes, and avoided calling her sweetie. After a few minutes, she stopped responding. I of course thought that maybe I freaked her out by bringing up the sweetie thing, so I sent her one last text saying, "Well, I'm glad you're doing OK. I'll leave you alone now. Have a good night, and keep in touch. I purposely avoided calling her sweetie. She again did not respond. After about 20 minutes, she finally texted me saying, "Sorry, I was driving to (town 20 minutes away from her town) and I didn't want to crash and burn. Thank you for texting me, lovie! You have a good night, too!" Well, I don't know what to make of this, but I have a good feeling that she is doing this whole break up thing to see if I will finally get a job. I don't expect her to come running right back right now, as the main reason she left me is because I have been jobless due to my lack of motivation for so long, and I still don't have one. I do love her, though. Very much. And I know she loves me. Besides the whole job thing, our relationship with nothing less than amazing. Anyway, it's back to NIC. She's got a lot on her plate, so I'll let her contact me when she wants to. I'm doing a good job on focusing on myself, and getting a job. I am sure I will have one within the coming weeks. I have given up old, bad habits, and taken on more positive ones. I get in about 5 applications a day, and some, more. She even told me, when she was very upset at me about a week ago for something we have since and permanently cleared up, that I could call her when I have a job for more than 2 weeks, and she'll give me a chance. I of course do not bring this up in the conversations we have now, I just hope that's still the case. I am going to let it ride. When I get a job, if she's still talking to me, I'll let her know. Link to comment
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