Girlfriend brings up past sex exploits and then is unable to do them with me

[AbombSnowMan]

yeah i understand how you must feel that she would do it with some random one night stand but not with someone who actually loves her. Sounds kinda messed up to me. If she decided she didn't like it, then it woulda made more sense to stop after 1 or 2 times not go 5-10 times and then decide.

[angelo82]

That's the thing. Like if it's some random screw buddy, why then do it so many times and not even once with me (been together almost a year!)

[nutbrownhare]

I think she's just dug herself into a pit of lies and can't get out again. Just to be on the safe side, get yourself tested.

 

And stop trying to make her do sexual things with you she doesn't want to do. In the face of this kind of pressure she's likely to want to do them even less (however much you think it's 'owing' to you).

[angelo82]

I haven't put too much pressure on her. Like for months I didn't even bring it up. I just bring it up if she ever starts teasing me about anal or something.

[moonsparkle]

maybe shes just lying and shes never really done any of those things and shes just saying it cause she wanted to turn you on..its really pathetic if she is lying but she might be! otherwise i think its kinda stupid of her to keep bringing it up with u but never really considering to act it out with u

[arcadefire]

I don't understand why your gf is bringing up past sexual exploits with her exes for. Is it to get you jealous? Put images in your head? Her talking about what she used to do with her exes serves no positive purpose in your relationship with her. You should sit down and have a heart to heart with her about why she continually brings these things up for. What kind of purpose does that serve? It makes you feel uncomfortable and does no good for the relationship as a whole.