bri427 Posted May 22, 2010 Share Posted May 22, 2010 Me and my ex fiance broke up in January, after a lil over a year of bein together. Our relation ship was rocky and we managed to overcomne alot of obstacles, always bringing us closer together. I messed up and once we tried fixing it a month later it was kinda just evident we needed to aprt ways, so he left me. Curently has been dating a new girl (3 days after BU). No he didnt leave me JUST for her, it was kinda neccassary since we were gonna be 2 1/2 hours away now and couldnt let go of our past issues....now that 5 months have passed, between fighting so much and tryin to find a happy balance. for the first time since BU we have been more open/honest and gettin along better. even has been tlk of tryin things out again in the future. BUT it messes wit my head. i now finally have my sh*t together and yes i still love him and we get along fine, even wit him being wit someone else. HE WANTS... to tlk every week once or twice. his reasons being that he enjoys talking wit me and im the only one he feels that comfortable wit and can tlk wit like the way he does. wants me to stay single (i have been and celibate) cuz he feels we will have another chance at "us" again. i sometimes back out of this little arrangemnt for fear of fallin for him again as bad as i was and it gettin all complicated. basically im tryin to protect myself from being hurt from him. but he hates when i do this and says i jus always mess stuff up for us when were doin good. so my questions are...has any of u been in this situation? am i being too irrational? should i listen more to what he wants instead of backing out all the time? any advice is welcomed....thx Link to comment
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