m8k9 Posted May 22, 2010 Share Posted May 22, 2010 I met her more than 2 years ago on Facebook. Let's call her T. We talked and talked some more and got so close and we found out that we have so much in common. I am 21, and in my family it is very important the girl I marry is from the same religion, nationality, etc.. She fits that criteria, so I automatically put her on the potential long-term list. (Important because most of my exes would most definitely be rejected by my parents) So we began to grow really close and around the summer of 2008, we began to talk every day for hours. This was the routine up until last summer. Bear in mind, I hadn't met her personally yet. During that year, not everything was smooth. While we talked for hours each day (including night calls where we'd fall asleep on the phone together), we had a lot of fights mainly because she'd say she had a crush on my cousin (whom she never met either) and of course, since I began to fall for her I used to boil deep down. So, I met her in summer 2009 and she was just the person I expected her to be, and I was crazy over her but at the same time, she began to fall for my cousin. She knew that I had a thing for her, but she reiterated that she only sees me as a best-friend. I travelled from June-August and while at the airport, I called my cousin and told him to hang out with her, something I was forced to say by her. I was infuriated and we talked a bit during the summer. I had to go back in September and we talked minimally, and my cousin, knowing that I had a thing for her, respectfully showed no interest in her. They stopped talking despite going out for a few months. At that point, I really could not stand her. So our routine of daily talks was put to an end and we barely had any conversations. In February, I met and dated this girl, but it was nothing serious. During our dates, I'd actually think of T, and how much I miss her, despite everything. So, we began talking again recently, and a few days ago we spent the day together. It wasn't a 'date', but I was going crazy over her. She is everything I want in a girl and I really don't think I can find someone as good as her that fits my criteria. She would tell me a long story, and I would just sit there and gaze into her eyes and admire everything about her. She also knows and understands me inside out. She enjoyed that day as much as I did and we're hanging out again on Sunday. Should I try again?! Link to comment
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