Jeen Posted May 22, 2010 Share Posted May 22, 2010 Well where do I start! Me and my ex husband bought a home when we got married we spend the years we were married making it a home we both enjoyed. It was a place we both loved, after our divorce I stayed on in this home and payed my ex the difference to compensate him for his investment in this home, money wise and time spent making it a home. Since then I move myself just a bit more than a year ago and rented the place out to people I know very well. A few months back I decided to sell the place for a charity that is close to my heart did not receive gov. funding this year and could use the money. I never even thought of my ex while making this decision. Well this week his mom visited me and “I am still very close to his mom and dad” said if I am going to sell the place my ex “her son” is also interested in buying the place, it is a good property but nothing special if you are looking at the property market. He got married a year after our divorce and have a family and lives in a home just short from being a castle. Why would he want our old home? To be honest I don’t want to sell it to him. I know I’m not his care taker or wife anymore but I feel it may be out of some sentimental value he is interested in buying it back. I feel deep down in my heart this will not be a good decision to sell it to him for how would it look and feel to his wife at this point, when he do get to buy it. I’m really having a hard time figuring out what to do! I don’t want to hurt him by saying no but still I feel it will not be good for his marriage, or how this may look to his wife, it feels like I’m sabotaging his family by wanting to sell the place, opening old feelings that we all could do without. Link to comment
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