Yum Posted February 23, 2011 Share Posted February 23, 2011 I like a toned body. Muscle definition can be sexy IF it looks healthy. Crazy popping vein steroid man bodies are gross. But if it looks moderately natural with some added muscle... yes please Link to comment
LostnConfused Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I'm a guy, but over the course of a year I will put on and off around 40 pounds or so. I'm an all natural weight lifter so I'm fairly muscular, but I'm not extremely so. I get more attention from the ladies when I'm in top shape versus when I'm at my largest, of that I am certain. You also don't HAVE to be ridiculously muscular to go the gym. A lot of people just like keeping in shape. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I love good sized muscles (not too big) and I can't fathom how any girl can not like them! It's like a man not liking soft skin to me. It shows the guy is fit and physically strong, how can that be a turn off?! Link to comment
Snny Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I don't look at other guys at the gym. I'm too busy focusing on my own body But I do like people who take care of their body. Sometimes I lift weights with them Link to comment
Michele32 Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I like lean guys...skinny with some muscle...but if a guy has a hot face then he can pull off any body, but thats just what I'm attracted to. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 They are nice to look at, but I prefer the average joe with some chubbiness. Link to comment
BenDZ Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I really think that appearance has a lot to do with someone, but is only the initial step. Their attitude carries them quite a way. I have lots of examples of friends who have perfect 10 girlfriends, but they themselves are maybe average. I've wanted to know the answer to this question as well, as I go to the gym a lot, but I'm not a massive, big, bodybuilder or anything. I've got a fluffy belly (and for some odd reason, a lot of my women friends say its cute), and I usually focus on benching or other arm exercises. My build makes me look buff, when I'm really not. Link to comment
PonytailFairy Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 I cannot say sexy because I do not know sexy but they are fun to watch Link to comment
1991kmh Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 Blackey, I'm going to agree with your friend. I like men who aren't a whole lot taller than me and not necessary "big". Like, an "average" amount of musculature is good in my opinion. *nods* Kait Link to comment
generaldiscord Posted February 24, 2011 Share Posted February 24, 2011 Eh, it depends. For looking, I like a nice muscular guy with a v-shaped torso kind of like Michelangelo's 'David'. Mmmm.... But for dating? I really don't care that much as long as it isn't Iron Man or the Hulk. I imagine that would be like going to bed with a bag of rubber balls, but I don't really know for sure. Link to comment
dramallama Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 No, it's a turn-off for me. I find those guys to just look like knuckle heads. Link to comment
steveofsussex Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Surely there is only one muscle the ladies should be happy with Link to comment
dramallama Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 The brain? That's what I find sexy. Link to comment
steveofsussex Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Indeed! although the male and female brain are very very different I hear...... If only I could get inside the female brain for a day to understand... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Indeed! although the male and female brain are very very different I hear...... If only I could get inside the female brain for a day to understand... We're not that different... Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 No. Nix the six-pack. Unless your job requires that level of fitness, to me that indicates someone too obsessed with training for my taste. Link to comment
hc_afifan Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 I don't really like anything too muscular, whether that be average or buff or whatever. Just think of all the hours he must waste in the gym and how crazy his diet must be to maintain that body...in a fantasy world, where men can be muscular without sacrificing time or energy, though, my "ideal" body type is the lean, cut look. Think Brad Pitt in "Fight Club." The really big buff look doesn't appeal to me at all, it just isn't aesthetically pleasing, too much muscle. For "real" men, I prefer skinny guys. Something about the idea of a guy who's scrawny and looks feeble, yet is still stronger than me and would be willing to protect me is really hot, as far as I'm concerned. Link to comment
BritterSweet Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Buff guys with huge muscles aren't a turn on for me, but they're not a turn off either. I guess I feel kind of neutral about them. There seems to be a bit of a stigma against bodybuilders. But maybe I'm just like this because my dad and brother work out. My dad's getting his six-pack back from doing Insanity after weeks of being sick made him gain weight. And my brother is taking protein shakes to bulk up and doing P90-X, and even entered a bodybuilding contest in high school. Link to comment
generaldiscord Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Indeed! although the male and female brain are very very different I hear...... If only I could get inside the female brain for a day to understand... Just be aware, when you do get that phenomenal chance, that female brains are full of surprises and mysteries. For instance, they're all different! One could almost believe that female brains are more similar to normal human brains than each other! It's so incredibly confusing Link to comment
FeistyWoman Posted February 25, 2011 Share Posted February 25, 2011 Girls, do you find "big" mascular men who work out in the gym sexy? Nope. They usually look all roided out. Not sexy in the slightest. Link to comment
lizbriscoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 No my husband has the tall and lean muscular build. He's all mucsle no fat but isnt overly big just very cut and after ten years his build still drives me wild. I have never been into the huge body builder type. Link to comment
Sim54 Posted March 9, 2011 Share Posted March 9, 2011 No I don't, but I also don't want to date a guy with flabby moobs and a beer belly with a pouch of fat over his junk. Did you REALLY just say 'junk'????? hahahahaha Link to comment
Alezia Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 In terms of look I like either the nerdy skinny/tall build, average broader shoulder type guy or the natural gym-buff (not steroids vein popping laden one) tall guy. The only look I dislike is when the man carries more weight than he should for a healthy BMI. I'm very very picky about my fat, but not so much the body frame. Several of my friends would rather take a broader shoulder guy with belly fat than a skinny guy, so it all comes down to personal preferences. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 I don't like super muscular men, they look like action figures to me and I know it's stereotyping but I get this image that they are very invested in their appearance. I like a guy who is normal sized, I am not put off if a guy is a little more to one side of the scale (slightly skinny or slightly heavy). I can't go out with a guy who is as skinny as a toothpick nor a fat guy though simply because I don't find that attractive. Link to comment
InvisibleWound Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 One of my exs worked out all the time, he had abs, and very big (musceled arms) he was attractive but sometimes his arms bothered me (the way they looked I guess) I also felt out of place around him because I was out of shape and he was very in shape and fit... Myself I like average guys, a bit of weight is nice too. So I am ok with overweight/heavy fellas. My boyfriend and me are both overweight, I guess its a comfort thing... Link to comment
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