Rules during casual sex?

[oscuro]

I don't know how to ask this: what are the norms or common aspects of casual sex? By that I mean, what do men and women normally do sexually? I've had girlfriends in the past where there's a different kind of communication. However if and when I casually spend an evening with someone, I'm not sure if there are automatic expectations. For example, this may sound odd but is it appropriate for a guy to just release on the girl? I've mostly just had sex with girlfriends in the past and just never had the habit of doing that. For all I know, maybe women expect a man to unload on her. Any opinions on this?

[Atticus90]

there's rules? LOL

[hockeyboy]

just ask her where she wants it

[Cheeks18]

Ummmm....I highly doubt many women expect you to unload on them....lol...Though it is quite enjoyable!!

[KG]

Just ask politely before you do. She knows it's coming. No condom? That's not good.

[Atticus90]

Well, has to go somewhere doesn't it? Rather it'd be in her butt or on her face. Use your imagination. I always did it on the breast or inside her mouth. On the face, then I'd get slapped lol.

[Day_Walker]

Casual sex is about lust, too often things arent said they are just done. If you have a particular interest in finishing on a girl then go for it.

[digger11]

Casual sex is about lust, too often things arent said they are just done. If you have a particular interest in finishing on a girl then go for it.

 

 

no.... just because it's casual doesn't mean respect is lost.

 

I would simply say, "i'm going to "release", where do you want it?"

 

lower stomach is usually pretty safe.

[Scott12]

no.... just because it's casual doesn't mean respect is lost.

 

I would simply say, "i'm going to "release", where do you want it?"

 

lower stomach is usually pretty safe.

 

Wouldn't it depend on if it was a one night stand or a longer term FWB situation? If it's a FWB then I'd probably discuss it beforehand. With a one night stand, well, you're probably not going to see them again, so why not let loose and hope they like it?

 

Scott

[midnightrambler]

Casual sex is about lust, too often things arent said they are just done. If you have a particular interest in finishing on a girl then go for it.

 

i would pretty much get mind, not worrying about the rest

[Lady Rashomon]

i would pretty much get mind, not worrying about the rest

 

This kind of unpalatable attitude is precisely why I don't do "casual."