squirl Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Um, I guess I am putting this in "Getting Back Together" because I thought that is what I wanted. Now just curious about your thoughts of what's going on here. Here's the sequence of events. Sorry in advance for the excessive detail, it's just very weird: 1. After very serious 1.5+ year relationship,sudden breakup. In retrospect I was kind of messed up, lost in the RL, definitely controlling, insecure. 2. Light to medium contact for 5 months, intially NIC, longest time NC about 8 days. I don't hear of other girls yet 4. In this time, Ex invites me to BBQs, I go to a couple of them 5. Last week, we transfer my blog to my own server, we fight, but make up. I say let's have coffee when you're back from NY, he says sounds good. Email a little back and forth. 6. Last weekend, Ex dates 3 different girls in three different days (call the first girl#1) 7. I find out a friend died. Pretty upsetting. I text my Ex about it, we text chat a little. I plan a BBQ and FB invite a bunch of people including my Ex. (we have over 60 mutual FB friends) 8. Monday I feel like company, text a few people including my ex, for dinner or a drink. My ex says busy tonight, maybe tomorrow (Tues). I say yes that would be nice. I find out Girl#1 went to his house that night. 9. Tuesday the Ex texts he's feeling sick, don't know if he can get together. I make other plans. Ex later texts he's feeling better, do I want to eat. He writes a very long heartfelt comment on my latest blog post (which was a tribute to my late friend) and tweets it. I text I'm about to play tennis. 10. Wednesday I text how about tonight? He's busy for the rest of the week. I text, ok after NY. He texts Sure! He's back Thurs. I say great. 11. Today, he goes out with Girl #1 again. He FB invites over 100 people to a bbq he's planning in July, including most of our mutual 69 friends and my best friend. He doesn't invite me. Sorry again for the obsessive detail but the back-and-forth seems a little extreme, perhaps? It is ok if he is getting into a new RL, but to comment at length on my blog, tell me Sure! we'll get together next Thursday, and then the next day invite literally over 100 ppl to a bbq --including my best friend -- and not me seems a little harsh? Is it pretty obvious he decided he is jumping into something with Girl #1 and doesn't want to mess things up? He never responded to my invite, either. So I guess I don't get an invite and all my other friends do -- including my best friend, who he isn't even that close to -- because he has a new girl? Am I just being a sore loser or is he being a tad jerky? Link to comment
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