Andrew M Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Hey all, I'm feeling a little sick after hearing this news and what not, but I really need some comfort. TodayI recieved a call from my girlfriend, she sounded really nervous and then came out with this... ' Andy I'm really worried but I skipped my period the other day, I thought I was pregnaunt. I took a pregnauncy test and it came back with negative, I'm going to the doctors tonight to get it checked properlly' Now this is complelty un-planned, I've always worn a condom and what not but I'm really worried now. So many thoughts are going on in my head and just needed to splurge and I don't know what to do... Link to comment
MinziGirl Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 I had such situation happening to be many many times. Each time, i thought i was pregnant but at all times, it was just that the period was late. It could be stress which is delaying the period of your girlfriend. She should wait for max 2 more weeks... then she should test again. Link to comment
Andrew M Posted May 21, 2010 Author Share Posted May 21, 2010 Yeh thats what I thought it could be, she is going through a rough time at the moment and she has always been known to get stressed. I'm just so worried, I can literally feel my hands getting colder and a cold sweat starting to perspirate. Like I said shes going to the doctor, or ginocologist, I don't know who it is, to get it checked tonight. I personally hope its negative, so then we can talk about extra forms of contraception rather than if she wants to keep it or not. Link to comment
sidehop Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Do you mind if I ask how old you two are? If for any reason that she is pregnant do you two have any plans as far as keeping the baby? Ultimately you two will need to come to a decision 'if' she is pregnant. Link to comment
Andrew M Posted May 21, 2010 Author Share Posted May 21, 2010 we already decided that if is pregnant that she would go for an abortion, and I think we are way to young to be going through this, she is 19 i am 20 Link to comment
sidehop Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 It's good that you two are on the same page if in case she's pregnant. I'm assuming you two did research on abortion and the risks involved? If not I recommend them. Ask plenty of questions with the doctor and make sure this is what you want. This isn't about what you should do or don't do. There's always a risk involved. Of course if you two decide to keep the baby that would be a completely different story. And it could simply be that she's not pregnant! Link to comment
Andrew M Posted May 21, 2010 Author Share Posted May 21, 2010 Yeh I know the risks and what not I read up alot on it and what not when she first told me a couple hours ago and just thought i need to know what i should do. But yeh she might not be, I hope she isn't cos then we can talk about extra contrception instead of this Link to comment
sidehop Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 Definitely...prevention is by far the best method. Link to comment
Andrew M Posted May 21, 2010 Author Share Posted May 21, 2010 Definitely...prevention is by far the best method. Definatly, I'll second you on that Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 She had a negative pregnancy test, so most possibly she is NOT pregnant. Link to comment
Andrew M Posted May 22, 2010 Author Share Posted May 22, 2010 Yeh, few! she isn't, that is such a relief, its just the initial shock really gets you, your just like oht ohhh what should I do and it's always good to get things off your chest, but so relieved, definatly going to think about more contraception! Link to comment
ToBeOrNotToBe Posted May 25, 2010 Share Posted May 25, 2010 Noooooo don't abort it put if up for adoption O_O Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Noooooo don't abort it put if up for adoption O_O Not really helpful. Link to comment
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