evan123 Posted May 21, 2010 Share Posted May 21, 2010 I have been dating a guy casually for 3 months. He was really into me before we started dating and often says I wanted nothing to do with him for so long. Anyway.....within this 3 months he has been very interested for weeks contacting and asking me out a lot and then seems to only contact a day or so the next week. We both agreed we could see others although we both act like we are not interested in others. There are weeks he blows me off and says he is too busy to see me and then weeks he texts or calls a lot. Most of the time he calls me last minute for dates. I am trying to play it cool because he seems half interested. I also always have to come to him and he never comes over my place. He plays golf on his two days off per week and never makes plans with me in advance. Last Friday night I happen to run into him out with my friends and I drank too much and when he stated he wanted to go home and go to bed I took it wrong and told him I did not want to see him anymore. He stated I was going to be at the beach most of the summer weekends so it didn't matter anyway. I left and then got really mad and ended up drunk texting him and then in the morning kept sending text after text and he never responded. Finally when I said this is my last text he called me and asked to get togther. I went to see him and played it cool and left after a few hours just enjoying spending time with him and not talking about the relationship. He told me he just had to get up for work early and that is why he brushed me off the night before. Things seemed fine. Well now it's Thursday evening and I have not heard from him. We are both 40 years old. Do I give it more time and contact? Do I wait for him to call me as I feel like a fool from last weekend drunken episode? Is he just not that interested? Help me! LOL! Men are so confusing! Link to comment
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