FootofGod Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 I just want to say right here that I'm sorry if I've posted too much and anyone's annoyed. If you are, just let me know, but replying and writing alot on here has helped me wonders. I know other people have problems, too, and I don't want to overshadow them. Anywho, on to this, which I think counts as a new thread topic and may be applicable to many people. First of all, my story is here: It's definitely not required reading, and only use it if you want to gauge my personal situation, but the topic is broadly applicable. I'm obviously doing no contact, as is pretty much commonplace here... but I have a question about rather or not something counts and/or is a bad idea. I de-friended my ex on facebook (I told her I was gonna when I initiated NC and that it's nothing personal and I don't hate her, it's just best for both of us) and deleted her number... but the other day, I had a "poke" from her on facebook (we used to constantly poke each other when we were together... on facebook, I mean It's early in, and I'm still swallowing the no contact myself, and I was touched and thought maybe it was a sign of understanding what I explained to her. So I poked her back. And, today, there's a poke again on from her. I definitely am gonna go easy on poking if I do, because too much would be just as bad as communicating, but is this a breach? Is this terrible, or is it a good way to say, "hey, I still don't hate you, even though we can't have contact?" Our break up was a GIGS, and I told her we can't just be friends, but, I just don't know. Please give me your 2 cents or tell me any paralleled experiences. Link to comment
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