dominant vs submissive

[Juxtapoz]

You know Juxtapoz, it might work best if you "act" a bit more submissive. Make up some stories of you being a poor thing. When I try that the man gets more aggresive, works well.

 

that's a tough one. i tried that too, last night. didn't tell a story but i wanted him to be the one to initiate things and so i was less pro-active...so it was like two submissive people having sex, vanilla as folk. zzzZZZzzz

 

i've been stressed out about a lot of things lately, and i know exactly what i need for a temporary fix...i just wish he'd hurry up and hand it over.

[quirky]

Maaayyybe...if you keep at it he will get bored and then he'll become creative. Particularly if you seem a little uninterested in sex for 4-5 days. The catch with this is for you to be super busy so you don't build up resentment. Aaaah..I feel your pain sista!

[greywolf]

That's not enough for people who aren't into it. You don't have to have a big discussion about it. One day just get him horny, and tell him to throw you onto a bed, hold you down, and take you (in a sexy way). He'll eventually start doing it on his own.

[x_LilMess]

Well I've always been more submissive,

My partner at the moment is Dominant.

But I think I could totally be dom if my partner wanted me too haha

[Juxtapoz]

Wow. My mom was right. You really do have to train guys like dogs. Double WOOF.

[regular joe]

I'm naturally a bit dominant, but every once in a while it is fun to be the submissive one. It nice to every once in a while to be the one who gets to lay back and be attacked.