guest2345 Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 My ex was hurt by another woman in his past which seemed to have closed him off to love in a sense. I thought we had it and he did feel deeply for me for a moment but recently we parted ways. I spoke with him just the other day and he told me that he believes in love but he was looking for a undeniable, unquestioned feeling when it came to love. But in the next sentence he says that he lost my sense of the romantic and trust in love for a while and now he's open to it. I guess not with me. I'm okay with that, I want someone who wants me. Still... do you think when people say that they are looking for a unquestioned, undeniable feeling in regards to love that it's unattainable? It's like a fairytail of what love is or should be? Just in talking to him it felt as if he was saying that this is what he was looking for in a partner. It got me thinking. Is this everyone's view? Is it as simple as that? I figure everyone has questions about is he/she the right one @ certain moments in our relationship. He seemed okay that I was it until I questioned him and pushed for commitment. Then he wasn't so sure. I'm just wondering your views on it. This is the man who got the GIGS when he was with me. He used the old ILYBNILWY line. I figure it was because he got caught and wanted to explore his options. He contacted me recently and we've spoken but there's nothing between us anymore. Link to comment
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