NorthDallas40 Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 I've been through a lot of dating ups and downs over the past 2 years, with heartbreak and frustration as well as good times. About 5 months ago, I went the online dating route and after meeting about five women who I generally liked but didn't work out, I've been seeing one girl for the past 3 months. I'm 40, she's 32. She's pretty, in great shape, loves to have sex every night & morning (and yes she is very GGG), has a stable job, is considerate, faithful, generous, responsible, wants to be with me all the time and is up for doing any activity I suggest whether its hiking, clubbing, swimming, seeing a movie or hanging out with friends. I trust her implicitly and she says she's looking for a long-term relationship, possibly with kids. In short, she's almost a perfect companion, especially when compared with all the flakes I've met this year. But notice I said "almost." If I can be honest here, there's a lot of things about her that don't click with me. She isn't enthusiastic even about things she likes, doesn't have hobbies, has exactly one friend in town, isn't very sociable, doesn't make very interesting conversation, doesn't seem to get my sense of humor, doesn't remember details of our conversations (leading to lots of re-explaining later), doesn't read much, and I have to explain even the most obvious plot points to her when we watch movies, all of which makes me think she's not very smart. In short, she's pretty and sweet. But dull. I know she tries her best, but often I feel like I get along better with strangers than with her. I've gotten on MUCH better with other girls who dumped me than her. And that doesn't feel right. Dunno if I have a question here. I guess I'm just interested in your feedback and reactions. Link to comment
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