hero112 Posted May 20, 2010 Share Posted May 20, 2010 Hello eNotAlone... I have posted on here before basically my ex and I dated for a couple months and we have tried to reconcile and she just pushes me away and I cut her off for months everytime. I ignored her birthday in april and the next day she sent me text saying "thank you for the flowers and chocolates, why didnt you text me?" I was in NC once again since march. I never had sent her anything but I think she was just playing with me. So then a few weeks later I felt guilty and last weds I sent her flowers and chocolates with a card attached saying dinner this week? She messages me and tells me there gorgeous and dinner soon, i keep pushing the fact lets get together I havent seen you for so long. We have a long talk a day later and we clear stuff up and she says its only fair for both of us to move on next time I go NC, that she is not going to come back. I say fair enough and explain to her that her actions cause me to do this. That we need to communicate better and not to walk away from other. Everything's fine we are talking back and forth, then on monday night she asks for the weight loss stuff and i tell her no i'm not going to get it for you because its not healthy for you that I will help you in any other way. She says im not going to drop this.. She tells me that when she loses weight that she feels beautiful about herself and I told her she is beautiful as she is and that's all that matters. She messages me the next day and says that she cant rely on me as a friend and that its not just the weight loss stuff, that she has trust issues because of how I cut her off in the past. That she has amazing people in her life and doesn't want to jeopardize that in any way. That we should stop communicating.. This was the fourth time I gave her another chance and this time in the heat of the moment I just messaged her and told her to " then she wrote that is exactly why she can't give a about me. I feel really guilty that in the moment I said that but I felt that she gave me no choice that she treats me like a doormat and as soon as I don't do what she wants she doesn't want me but if I go nc she keeps initiating contact until I give in. I never responded back to her, but I feel that I should apologize? What do you guys think? Link to comment
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