Should I tell her how I feel?

[nontoxicglue]

During my time abroad, I met a really nice girl that I had an instant connection with. We flirted a lot and she even told me that she wished I wasn't leaving so we could be a couple. I wasn't very comfortable about feeling this way towards her at first (because I had considered myself straight)...anyways, I found myself really falling for her.

 

I've left the country but I can't stop thinking about her. We promised that we'd keep in touch and visit each other...Should I write her a letter and tell her how I really feel for her?

[chai714]

I wouldn't tell her how you feel, directly. If you're going to KIT with her, maybe just indicating that you had fun hanging out with her. Otherwise, just let this slowly develop and KIT over a period of time. Next time you see her, you can gauge how it goes and take it from there . . .