contacted girl online in a city im moving to

[mmmd]

so on okcupid i messaged a girl who lives in a city i'm moving to in 2 months.

 

we've sent a couple good messages back in forth and she seems pretty cool; i would definitely ask her out if it normally.

 

that being said, i'm two months away from being in town, so i don't know how to play it. i messaged her this saying as much, but any ideas/thoughts would be welcome.

[Baily]

text every now and then....

stay in touch...but don't go overboard...Do not do facebook, long calls, myspace...etc...

just text or short calls to stay in touch.

 

my rule #1 with contact - Contact her ONCE a DAY (NO MORE!!!): send one text a day...whenever the conversation ends...that's it....if she gets back in contact...I will...but I won't initiate any more than once a day...

 

if you call her...no texting her....it's one contact by you ...

[peanutbutterandjelly]

i wouldnt keep in too much touch with her. I would let her know that you are moving and that you will get in touch when you are actually in town. 2 months is too long of a buildup. You will get emotionally involved. I'd maybe contact her a few weeks before you move and let her know when you will be around and see if she still wants to meet up.

[mmmd]

yea, just unsure of how to broach it.

 

we've sent about 3 pretty decent sized e-mails each of the last 3 days.

 

wondering if it'd be awkward if i said, "listen, i think it'd be better if we spaced out our communications until i get down there"

[mmmd]

ugh, lame. she's going abroad in the fall.

 

she seems very cool. she writes funny, thought out messages. is clearly eager to talk to me.