desert_rose26 Posted May 19, 2010 Share Posted May 19, 2010 So yeah...I'm on this online dating site...and I messaged this guy FIRST. I kept it very low key and simple. And I've reflected the same behaviour back to him. The messages were 3-4 sentences...very short for my taste. But he initiated meeting up. So I wrote back that I would like to and that weekdays are good for me and "lemme know when you're available". He writes back and gives me his number and below writes that he looks forward to hearing from me! -- what the heck? he's the one that asked me first...and now I have to be the one to call him??? The dynamics is sorta weird...I guess I was the one who pursued him first but HE's the one who suggested meeting up...and now he expects me to pick up the phone and call. What do ya guys think about this one? (the guy only has 1 pic..ugh) but I AM still interested. But why do you guys think he expects me to call..why would he do that? Because he doesn't care if I call or not?? that would be bad. Link to comment
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