Often attracted to Bi women before I know they are Bi

[tf987]

Reading another post got me to thinking about this and so I decided to seek some feedback. To give some quick geographical background, I live in a large, liberal, west coast city.

 

So my question is this... I often become attracted to women that I've later learned are bisexual. In the last 5 years, I've dated two women that were Bi (I asked them out before knowing they were Bi) and I've been attracted to at least 3 others that I'm just friends with. Does this sound statistically odd to anybody? I read somewhere oneline, but now I can't find the article, that there is a psychological term for this - a fairly new one.

 

All of the women I'm referring to have had the more feminine role in their women-women relationships.

 

Anyway, I guess I'm curious if many other guys that live in cities with large Bi or Gay populations have found themselves attracted to women that they later discovered were Bi?

 

Just to be clear, learning they are Bi doesn't really lessen my interest, I will still date them, but It has been on my mind because this happened to me again recently (met somebody, was attracted to her... then she told me she was Bi).

[Day_Walker]

I have been attracted to many women that have turned out to be bisexual. I have never thought of it as being an issue.

[babii doll]

i never seem to attract other bi girls myself, bring them my way i always attract "studs" which im so not attracted to. i have to intentionally go to an area that is 'bi' friendly in order to meet other bi chics.

[Shallow]

Maybe you're like me and are attracted to the more offbeat, open-minded, and free-spirited types? I think there's a good chance someone with those qualities is going to be bi.

 

Consider yourself lucky. The last crush I had didn't date guys at all.

 

Some days, I'm not sure why I even bother to get out of bed.

[kombatarts99]

I feel all women are Bi. It's in the genes. I told my wife when I met her, before we were married, that was bi she said no way now 8 years later two months ago I cought her with a woman.

[pinkelephant]

Maybe you're like me and are attracted to the more offbeat, open-minded, and free-spirited types? I think there's a good chance someone with those qualities is going to be bi.

 

Consider yourself lucky. The last crush I had didn't date guys at all.

 

Some days, I'm not sure why I even bother to get out of bed.

 

I was going to say that, but I didn't want to stereotype

[ghost69]

i never seem to attract other bi girls myself, bring them my way i always attract "studs" which im so not attracted to. i have to intentionally go to an area that is 'bi' friendly in order to meet other bi chics.

 

this sounds like you are gay. not into guys at all?