advice.help.....i think ive messed up.

[hotrod8472]

ok so its been about 3 weeks since my breakup with the ex if u dont know the history then oyu can just look at my previous post anyways i think ive broken the nc rule last nite by hanging out and drinking with my ex's mother is this breaking nc? so we went drinking and she told me that my ex misses me but just that she needed to concentrate on herself right now but that she still loves me so i said good but i really cant hang out around her because im trying toi maintain nc and concentrate on myself and work so my ex's mother understood. at the end of the nite i felt compelled just by my good person nature to send my ex $20 so that she could have some money to help her find a job today is this wrong if so how do i fix it ? do i go nc again or what.

[leq]

You done good bro, dont frett!!

[j.love]

just re-establish nc, and next time you hang out with the mom go get coffee, alcohol always confuses things.

[hotrod8472]

ok then nowim confused because i know im supposed to be doing no contact because its healthy but why does she always want me to comeover and hangout? till now ive never went because ive always invented an excuse butthe longer i get away from the breakup the more i want to go and hangout with her.....