RoxyGril Posted May 18, 2010 Share Posted May 18, 2010 My bf and I are coming up on 3 yrs together and I love him more then anything. IDK but lately I've been thinking a lot about our relationship. We do have things going good for us. But, then it feels as if I never do anything good enough for him because it feels as if he's on my case. I feel as if I am at the point to where I am unsure if I want to stay or to leave and go back home for awhile. Also, what I think is pushing me away a bit is his friend constantly being over here. His friend just moved out of his parents house about a month ago. His grandma bought him a house on the other side of town. Well, I have been living with my bf for about 2 months now and it feels as if his friend as been over for the same amount of time. I have told my bf about how I feel about him constantly coming over. I have mentioned that I don't mind having friends over but, having them over every single night gets diffcult to deal with. His friend will fall asleep on the couch and seems to not get the point that 'if I'm getting tired...I am going to go home.' My bf and I don't get a lot of alone time together. So, I also given plently of hints to my bf about and he doesn't seem to do much about. I can see that with his friend being here is getting to the point where it is starting to bother him. But, I was more happy with my relationship with my bf before his friend started hanging out constantly at our house. I guess in away I feel as if I have become the 3rd wheel. His friend has never had a girlfriend or let alone dated a girl. I think that this whole friend being over has caused me to have mixed feelings. My bf and I went on vacation for a weekend 2 weeks ago and I felt really good and that I was really happy with him. Especially I had spent the alone time with my bf. I just don't know what to do.....part of me want's to stay and part of me want's to leave. Any advice or opinions????????????? Link to comment
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