BellaStranger Posted May 12, 2010 Share Posted May 12, 2010 Right, I don't want to come accross as arrogant or conceited. Cos I'm really not, I have a lot of problems with my self image and this has always affected my confidence and outlook. I have always wrapped a lot of my self worth in being attractive to others, which I know is not a good way to be. However, that brings me on to the thoughts I've had recently, that have prompted me to write this post for other peoples opinions. I always have had a lot of attention from guys, and been told that I'm really attractive. This isn't all natural, like I say, I wrap a lot of my self worth in being attractive, I diet, gym, have my hair done, nails done, wear make up etc. but I'm starting to think that this has only negatively effected my relationships. I think guys see me as some sort of perfect, beautiful doll and they forget that I'm a real person, with real emotions and real problems. When these problems start to show themselves through my facade of beauty and confidence, I become instantly less attractive to them. Maybe if I walked around looking like a nervous wreck, I would attract guys who could deal with a girl who's a nervous wreck?? I was just wondering if people had opinions/ experiences they could add? Is it possible to just be too 'pretty' to attract the right sort of guy? Link to comment
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