Confused7 Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Being the dumpee, the dumper always lists reasons why it was OUR fault. As a result, we're left with all these "what if's" and wonder if our ex's knew how much we've changed, that things would be a lot different. We forget about all the bad times, and romantacize about the good, yearning to change ourselves into whom our ex wanted so that we can reconcile. As a result, we are stuck and unable to move on. That's where I am at currently. I want to call her so bad and tell her how much I've changed. Being the dumpee, we blame ourselves for so much. How are we supposed to move on? The guilt is just over bearing sometimes. Link to comment
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