I dont understand something.....

[coolgirl]

Why, do men tend to walk away and never mention anything to anyone when they say they are a friend when there not? Not talking about a relationship or anything. Its the person you barley know. And I know for a fact I didnt do anything wrong. And now that I think about it i sometimes think i did something wrong. And how can I prevent it from happening again ? I told this person i'm an understanding person and if there is anything wrong talk to me about it but end up leaving with no explanation nor nothing and I got upset that and emailed this person and said `if your gonna walk away from something at least let the person know your not talking to them so at least i wouldn't feel bad and I already do. and now i'm clueless and told this person that i'm not into games or anything else. I just get bummed out when ever this happens and it takes days or weeks for me to get out of the way I am. I hate it when this happens. I know nothing happened but still the feeling feels bad when someone drops you and dont talk to you.

 

I swear I cant trust anyone anymore and now i have a hard time with beleving someone or ever trusting anyone ever again. It gets harder in time trying to trust someone.

[JusticeLaw9]

You're right, there's no excuse. But sometimes it's difficult to tell a person you're not interested and don't want to talk to them anymore. Especially in a case like this where you haven't done anything wrong. I think he was worried about hurting your feelings and didn't want the guilt of delivering if any bad news. But oh well, that's one out of four zillion other brothers out there who might make a better match than that guy who just left you.

[coolgirl]

You're right, there's no excuse. But sometimes it's difficult to tell a person you're not interested and don't want to talk to them anymore. Especially in a case like this where you haven't done anything wrong. I think he was worried about hurting your feelings and didn't want the guilt of delivering if any bad news. But oh well, that's one out of four zillion other brothers out there who might make a better match than that guy who just left you.

 

 

Actually, you know what it was last week we were txting and I thought everything was going fine. then out of no where he left and not said one word. He said that if we didnt hit it off then we be good friends and after that never heard from him. i'm so mad i just wanna say something but i better not.