m4tid Posted May 9, 2010 Share Posted May 9, 2010 So I've been on three dates with a great girl, over the course of three weeks (the first date was short, so maybe 2.5). The conversation has been really great the entire time, with lots of smiling, laughing, and small amounts of physical contact. At the end of the second date, she initiated a quick kiss (a first for me for a woman to do this), and I did likewise on the third. Both ended with good vibes and flirty voice tone. My problem is I don't really know what to do next. I'm in my late twenties but not very experienced in dating. The only woman I've been out with more than once was my ex-girlfriend (and she was immature and made things way too easy for me). This girl is quite outgoing and keeps a busy schedule, so I'm afraid of pushing too hard and wanting to see her more often. I'm a little intimidated by how outgoing and active she is. On the other hand, I don't want her to think I'm uninterested by waiting too long, or because I'm more reserved physically. I don't know if seeing someone once a week is too slow, or too fast for some people, or what. I'm fine if nothing more serious comes from this, but don't want it to be because I'm clueless about how to progress. Basically I just want to hear "you're doing fine, keep it up", or "step up your game, son!" Thanks. Link to comment
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