anders055 Posted May 8, 2010 Share Posted May 8, 2010 Hello there.....long time no post I just came accross a nice article and i think it would help many of you.. link removed Excerpt: There are 3 “phases” of grief: 1) shock and denial, 2) great emotion, 3) acceptance, reorganization and integration. The bulk of grief work is done in the middle phase which is where all the emotional turmoil takes place. For me, i think i go through all of the phases randomly. Its been 1.5 years and i can still feel the shock of what happened although I've fully accepted it...and that's why I'm in 1 year of NC and counting. Unfortunately, acceptance for me has meant not only getting over her but also not looking forward to any future relationships. I really don't feel like being in a relationship again. My ex, who i was extremely fond of and close to, kind of behaved like a sl_ut during the last year of our relationship and screwed all wonderful moments i had. I don't see being in love as something great to do anymore. Thank god for that. Link to comment
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