LonelyInLove Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 Hi Guys So I met my bf whilst I was on holiday and we have now been together for one year. The first 6 months we saw each other when we could and in that time we both fell for each other hard and knew we wanted to be together. I took a break from work and moved country to be with him. Things are perfect between us but I found it hard being away from famiy and friends, the language barrier meant I couldn't really make any friends and work was limited out there. I know I could have tried harder to make things work there but regrettably I didn't. I came back home and we although I have seen him once since being back, these two months have been the hardest of my life. I am completely in love with him and I have no doubt he is the one. The plan was that we would stay apart for a while, while I study for a career and the language, and then I would again relocate. However, a career and anything else now seems pointless if I can't wake up and be with the man that I love every day. There are jobs I can do there and while not great, it means being with him. I am close to moving back, but I am wondering if I'm doing it for the right reasons. Should I stay and study, which means being apart for God knows how long, or go back and give it another try. I fear that if i don't make it work this time, it would be the end of us, but the distance is so hard I want to be with him now. Any advice would be very much appreciated. Thankyou Link to comment
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