KeepMe Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 My ex, if you would even call him that, is quite alarming to me. I don't know what "normal" person would act this way, and it's quite scary... I'll try to be brief. Long story short, I met this random guy long distance when I was thirteen (he was 15) in a CHAT ROOM years, and years, ago. Started what we thought was a relationship that both of us were too young, stupid, and completely unready for. He was a real wild child, and was very weird at that age. His family was/is very dysfunctional, he was basically acting like a young juvenile delinquent. I got away from him for two years, and he messaged me again when I was sixteen. Stupidly, I was still young and decided to talk with him some more. Years went on and he was the same weird person, and him and I never got along. When I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, he would call me named. Once called a "aids infest jew" (I'm not even jewish) and say that he hated me, I was nothing but a c**t, worthless, piece of crap, would never mount to anything. He would switch his attitude around two seconds later and start bawling his eyes out and say he was sorry, he didn't mean it, and only said this because he was upset with me, and that he loved me more than anything. Needless to say he was an emotional abuser, unfortunately everytime he contacted me regardless of how many years we did NC I would stupidly talk to him when he came crawling back. This is the alarming, and scary part This was just some random guy that I met on a chat room, that I've tangoed with for 8 years, only meeting him in real life once for a week; long ago. I blocked all contact with him the last time we had an argument, I blocked him from every possible thing that linked to me. I remember the last time that we talked he tried to get me upset by saying that he had a thing for my friend, I'm not stupid I knew he did. I tried coming up with something that would really destroy him that would actually make him hate me and want to never contact me again. So I told him that I cheated on him multiple times, with multiple people (this was very untrue, but I had to think of something.) Of course this did it ... or so I thought. Look at my phone today and it's been 7 months. He is now 23 years old, and he messaged me again on my phone. Are you kidding me? A 23 year old can not, and will not, stop following me. I've have the police involved, he phone harasses me every time things went sour. He seriously held onto what was a computer pixelated relationship that started when he was 14 and still never found anyone new. And each month, and each year until now he has tried to contact me. He is 23 he should have a life, a girlfriend, living on his own, getting serious about life. Instead he's chasing some random girl he met on a random chat room, in our preteens and only ever met once in his life. What the heck am I to do? I cannot get rid of this creep! And I've had a few boyfriends since him, and happily moved on. Link to comment
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