ZizousamA Posted April 29, 2010 Share Posted April 29, 2010 Ladies, what do you think of kind, considerate, forgiving men? Do some women, unfortunately, confuse kindness and tolerance and patience in men as a sign of weakness? I mean, if a man is patient with his lady and puts up with being ill-treated at times and is considerate to her emotions, do some ladies think that the guy is a wimp?!!! So, do women want us to treat them with neglect so that we be "manly" enough for them? I don't see how the trait of kindness is related to being weak or coward or less manly. I think men should be kind to women and considerate with them more than they are with men. Do men have to be rigid and inconsiderate and neglect women in order to establish their manhood in the eyes of women? Kindness and weakness are not synonymous unless I live in another realm Kindness and other values are not gender specific. They are virtues that all people should try to possess and it has nothing to do whatsoever with being less confident or weaker. I heard, more than I could count, that if a man wants women to be good to him, he should treat them bad. As in neglect them and they will be great with you I can't bring myself to do this to anyone especially to a woman. I fail to see how you have to be a * * * * * * * to be a man in a woman's eyes. I mean I can't act like that and I don't think it's right. Many told me "well, if she called, don't pick up the first time she dials you. Let her call a few times then pick up. Then, when you pick up act like you're busy. Plus, if she says let's meet at ten, say no eight just for the heck of it."...... etc. I think that things like that are childish really and I won't do stuff like that to prove am a man. The reason is, that has nothing to do with manhood. That's simply being a jerk! Ladies, give me you're two cents. Is this really the way the world works? man = jerk? Link to comment
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