Welsh lad Posted April 29, 2010 Share Posted April 29, 2010 Ok so this girl im seeing at the minute broke up with her ex about 6 months ago (a relationship of around 5-6 years she got with him when she was 18ish)he was the 1 to end it then he decided he wanted her back which she said no, he hassled her lots to get back with him but she kept saying no, he threatend suicide etc so she had to go see him explain it was over, even had to get his mum invovled to sort him out. He now lives about 1 hours drive from here im not sure if they speak that much but im sure they dotn see each other. Now me and her are just going slow, enjoying each others company, we had a rough patch about 1 month ago sorted through that and since then its been beautiful,calling,texting,going for walks buying each other silly little gifts. My plan all along has to just carry on like this until somethign happens if it ever does but whilst not being totoally exclusive if i met someone i clicked with who was willing to start something really serious if that makes sense? I guess what im getting at is how long will something liek that take to get over? i mean shes had her chance to get back with him numerous times but has declined, her friends tell me they were never right for each other and he was horrible,arguing lots,never took her out etc. A few years ago i was in a 2 year relationship and it took a good 6 months to get over it but once i met the next person i was ready for something. I know theres no general rule here but anyone with similar experiences that could shed some light onto this? Link to comment
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